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Why You’re Attracted to Emotionally Unavailable Partners (Even When You Know Better)
Why You Feel the Need to “Fix” Emotionally Unavailable Partners
Have you ever found yourself drawn to people who are distant, inconsistent, or just out of reach—only to fall into the exhausting cycle of trying to prove you're enough?
It’s not because you’re naïve. And it’s definitely not because you’re broken.
It’s because, somewhere in your story, love became something you had to earn.
This blog explores the deep psychological roots behind the urge to fix or rescue.
Kahila Hedayatzadeh
4 min read


How Hyper-Independence Is a Trauma Response (And How to Soften It)
When Strength Starts to Hurt You’ve always been the one people rely on. The one who figures it out, keeps it moving, doesn’t fall apart....
Kahila Hedayatzadeh
3 min read


Doubt in Your Relationship? Here’s How to Tell If It’s Healthy
Is Your Relationship Healthy?
Kahila Hedayatzadeh
2 min read


Breaking the Cycle: Recognizing and Ending Repeating Relationship Patterns
As Dr. Gabor Mate says, we are born in relationships, hurt in relationships, and healed in relationships. Relationships are a...
Kahila Hedayatzadeh
3 min read
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